The girl who was known to have a shy personality and smiling face, was a naughty brat deep inside. From jumping from one couch to another in the tv lounge, she grew up to fly high opening her wings. The girl who was loved by everyone around her, being the favourite of everyone made her believe in positivity and love only. Yes, she was the one who wanted love and attention all the time. During the period when she was developing emotions and getting to know about the purity of love, she faced alot! The little daddy’s girl found her first best friend in her father. The level of attachment with her dad had no bounderies. She felt safe and guarded with her favourite human and her role model – her dad. She never knew the world outside her comfort zone is not the same as she imagined it to be. The school life began with a flow of emotions bringing in a lot of friendships. Thus despite being the teacher’s favourite and a bright student, she struggled through the rugged paths of friendship.

“YOU’RE ALWAYS SAFE AT HOME WITH YOUR LOVED ONES”

We often hear our mothers dictating this to us, that’s what she has been told. But, that’s not the case. The girl should have been told that we are not safe anywhere with anyone. We have to protect ourself. Unfortunately, she was misguided and was taken advantage of her innocence at an age of 10. Tactically, she was manipulated and victimised! Silence over powered the fear and innocence of that girl. Thus it became the darkest secret of her life and she was not allowed to speak about it.

Life goes on! The growth continues into a most sensitive soul filled with positivity.

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